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| Intention statements can communicate | a. where you stand on an issue b. requests of others c. descriptions of how you plan to act in the future **D. A, B, AND C ABOVE e. only interpretations of behavior |
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| ‘You are such a couch potato’ is an example of what Gibb defense-arousing behavior? | evaluation. |
What is an example of what Gibb defense-arousing behavior?
‘You are such a couch potato’ is an example of what Gibb defense-arousing behavior? ‘I know that isn’t going to work under any circumstances’ is an example of the Gibb defense category of
Which sentence is an example of the Gibb defense category?
‘I know that isn’t going to work under any circumstances’ is an example of the Gibb defense category of The communication climate in a relationship is determined by the The most visible way disconfirming messages reinforce one another, as when one attack leads to another and another, is termed a (n)
What is the Gibb category of evaluation?
Your instructor tells you how poor your writing ability is and how wrong it is for you not to work harder on it. That instructor used the Gibb category of evaluation. Members of an individualistic culture like the United States
What is Gibb’s communication climate?
The emotional tone of a new relationship is called the communication climate A communication climate has to do with the way people feel about each other as they carry out activities Behavior that fits into Gibb’s category of ‘strategy’ attempts to manipulate the other into doing what you want
Which of the following is a non defensive response to criticism you really messed up that account now?
a way to avoid change. Which of the following is a non-defensive response to the criticism, ‘You’ve really messed up that account now’? ‘Tell me what, in your mind, I did that upset you.’
Does direct aggression include teasing?
Direct aggression is described as physical attacks and swearing, but does not include teasing or nonverbal gestures.
What is expression privacy dialectic?
The expression–privacy dialectic captures the desire for both intimacy while we crave distance between ourselves and others. The open–closed dialectic is the internal struggle between expression and privacy. The revelation–concealment dialectic is the external expression of the conflict between openness and privacy.
What are conflict rituals?
Conflict Rituals. patterns of behavior that appear in conflicts; generally unknown to the parties involved; nothing wrong with rituals, except when it’s the only way conflict is dealt with, ex. A couple fights; one leaves. The other takes the blame and they make up. Then they fight again.
What is an example of a defensive response?
Signs You Are Defensive
Stop listening to the other person. Make excuses about whatever you are being criticized about. Blame the other person for what they are criticizing you about. Accuse the other person of doing the same thing.
What is a defensive behavior response?
Defensive behaviors are a group of evolved responses to threat. They include flight, freezing, defensive threat, defensive attack, and risk assessment. The type of defensive behavior elicited in a particular situation depends on features of both the threat and the situation.
What is direct aggression examples?
The major cause of direct aggression, is a conflict that causes those involved to use it. For example, when you get punched, you punch the one who punched you back, which is also direct aggression. Another is when someone insults you and in return, you ‘roast’ them, verbally.
What is an example of indirect aggression?
Indirect aggression includes behaviours such as criticizing a competitor’s appearance, spreading rumours about a person’s sexual behaviour and social exclusion.
What are examples of physical aggression?
Physical aggression is behavior causing or threatening physical harm towards others. It includes hitting, kicking, biting, using weapons, and breaking toys or other possessions.
What is a dialectic example?
‘ For example: ‘I am angry with my sister, and I accept her as she is. ‘ would be a dialectical approach because I am acknowledging my two seemingly conflicting feelings as part of the same truth. ‘I am angry with my sister, but I accept her as she is.
What is an example of Relational Dialectics?
Here are some examples: With my wife, I might want both intimacy and space. The two concepts contradict one another, but I want both these things from the relationship, at different times; With my parents, I want them to be available to me whenever I need them, but I also don’t want them to constantly be in my life.
What is expressive protective dialectic?
In the expressive-protective dialectic, tension exists between the desire to disclose and the desire for privacy. In the autonomy-togetherness dialectic, tensions exists between independence and interdependence. In the novelty-predictability dialectic, tension exists between stability and change.
What are the 4 types of conflicts?
The opposing force created, the conflict within the story generally comes in four basic types: Conflict with the self, Conflict with others, Conflict with the environment and Conflict with the supernatural.
What are the 5 types of conflict strategies?
According to the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI), used by human resource (HR) professionals around the world, there are five major styles of conflict management—collaborating, competing, avoiding, accommodating, and compromising.
What is conflict stimulation techniques?
The stimulation of conflict initiates the search for new means and goals and provides the stimulus for innovation. The successful solution of a conflict leads to greater effectiveness, to more trust and openness, to greater attraction of members for each other, and to depersonalization of future conflicts.
What is a non defensive response?
We are using non-defensive communication when we ask questions, make statements and predict consequences in an open, sincere way without trying to control how other people respond. We can gather accurate information, speak with clarity, protect ourselves, and hold others more accountable.
How do you respond to criticism without being defensive?
How to respond to criticism without being defensive.
- Dismissing: ‘You must be kidding me!
- Using ‘Yes, but…”: “Okay, I hear you, but what really happened was
- Explaining: “Well, I got caught up in traffic and then”
- Derailing the conversation: “We can’t talk about this right now because I want to talk about”
How can you respond non-defensively to criticism?
Responding Non-Defensively to Criticism
- Seek more information ….
- Ask the other to be specific ….
- Paraphrase the speaker’s ideas ….
- Ask how the critic would like you to change ….
- Ask about the consequences of your behaviour….
- Ask if there is anything else ….
- Agree with the critic ….
Which one is a way of responding non-defensively to criticism?
Here are some options that can help respond non-defensively to criticism. Seek more information. It is foolish to react to a critical attack until you understand what the other person has really said. Be patient and you will learn that you can listen to hostile comments without necessarily accepting them.